Stuck in the Mud? .... Accept Direction...

... We spend so much time in our "own worlds" that we tend not to hear what others say. Once you decide to take a different path in life, whether it be Careers or other situations... KEEP AN OPEN EAR WITH AN OPEN MIND to the advice from friends and others. With doing so, you'll realize that they are giving great support and good advice. No one is too old or too experienced to learn something new. After all, without new challenges life would be stagnant. Accept direction from others and see how fast you move... Life is too short not to!

GIVE YOURSELF TIME....

We all forget the MOST OBVIOUS principle.. of SIMPLY GIVING TIME TO THE TASK OF VISION.
If we need to improve ourselves on a personal level, we must visualize that state at it's highest and best, even when and more importantly , when we are at our lowest.
Addiction: Once you ardently desire to reform and recover from any addiction, you must visualize yourself, emotionally and physically at your healthiest. Accept and focus to achieve that level of Peace.
An Addiction inevitable breaks down a relationship and marriage. The honest truth of the matter is... You must heal yourself before you can heal your relationship. Healing the self to heal others is the only key.
Many use their addiction as a crutch for their actions... hmmm think about this!
Success is not a privilege, it is a choice.  Addiction is also by choice.
The most precious stone (Taonga/Gift ) one can give another is one which is harmoniously clean and clear. Truth wins at the end of the day. Kia Kaha Koutou.

Happens to the best of Us. 1 minute you're here, next minute you're not...

Manipulation at it's Best... " Gotta laugh a little aye "

Change...

Change is never a loss... it is change only. With true intentions and true goals for change,there is no situation that could ever confront you that can not be solved. Relax, focus and don't create scenarios that may or may not happen....
D'Rose: " E Hoa Amas, do you believe in Fate ? "
Amas: " No "
D'Rose: " Why not "
Amas: " Because I would like to think I am in control of my life "
D'Rose " Good 'onya Mate "

Decide to Forgive

Forgiveness literally means letting go. Positioning yourself in regard to the event or person in such a way , that they no longer have power over you. Forgiveness doesn't take away the pain or the wound, but it does however clean it so the poison of bitterness and hate have no where to live. Unforgiveness does nothing to the perpetrator of the crime, who is probably oblivious to your pain... but forgiveness means you are bigger than the hurt and will no longer be controlled by it.

Something Novel..

Humans are more than happy dropping bombs from aircrafts.... Something Novel for Nato to think about... DROP FOOD PARCELS. !!!!! light bulb moment.
If Nato world leaders can sit around a table working out logistics on how to get their planes in the air to destroy people... why aren't they flying food to the sky and dropping it on Kenya and Somalian Refugees? Is keeping people alive completely out of the question?
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Be Yourself..

Keep a positive Self Image:
Look at your Hero's and Mentors as motivation, not Emulation.
Whether your focus is making money, raising children or perfecting your craft, you must remember that you can only compare yourself to your own past. Don't compare yourself to others and don't look to others for approval.

Identify.. target... aim...FIRE! Get rid of Negative Thinking....

Here are ways that negative thinking can manifest...

1) Making decisions based on your race, culture, age or sex...

* " There are hardly any Maori/Indigenous Airline Pilots out there. I might as well give up that idea now. "
* " Women are not taken seriously when starting a business, so why set myself up for failure? "
* " I'm an old dog that can't learn new tricks. "

2) Talking about your problems alot... Sure, we all need a good bitch session to let it all out, but if you find yourself talking continually about your problems instead of your successes, you need to change your mindset. You are bringing yourself, and others down. If you can't think of something positive to say, don't say anything at all.

3) Dwelling on your dysfunctional family! For god sakes!!!! Have you ever seen a functional family??? I haven't. Nobody is perfect out there, and having issues in your family is pretty common. Just like endlessly dwelling on your own problems, you need to stop focusing on your family's shortcomings and become a forward, not backward, thinking person.... Amen.

4) Hanging around with negative thinking people... Even though they don't really mean us harm, and they are family or long time friends.. sometimes they can be real downers. Some people just don't believe in themselves, and as a result they can't Believe in You either. Just as a recovering alcoholic has to stop hanging around with his old drinking buddies, you have to limit your exposure to your negative thinking associates.

Keep it real Folks.. ( Thanks Charles Major)

Yet another thought..

Another recipe for keeping a positive image is to simply believe in yourself.. After all.. if you don't believe in the inevitability of your own success.. Then who the hell will?

Which brings me back to what I wrote yesterday...
"Many are anxious to improve their circumstances but unwilling to improve themselves"

A friend of mine rang the other day, after returning from Bali and Hong Kong... she quickly said hello and explained her new plans for her new business. She was so alive.
I listened intently. I heard her plan well, but believe me, I felt her re birth, her new self worth, her determination, her challenge, and I sensed her future... ( she kicked my ass) Thanks Jess x

Most positive and engaging Speaker on business and self worth... Charles Major

http://Becomeamogul.com
You won't regret reading this....